falloutboytaylorsversion:

with the new john mulaney special out i just want everyone to know that it’s not because of his divorce that i refuse to watch it. honestly, i think how the internet handled that was weird. it was a personal romantic relationship that we didn’t have all the information on, and as someone who had an addiction problem i’m not going to judge him for making (what looks like to us) a bad decision right after he got out of rehab, and if you would i think you need to look inside yourself as to why you think that’s okay. i’m not saying i loved watching that, but i think we need to have grace for people in difficult situations and i normally would want to hear his side, perhaps even through a comedy special!

why i refuse to watch the new special or engage with his content is he openly and happily platformed a transphobe right after he started getting heat for being openly transphobic. i’m not letting that go.

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antidisneyinc:

when hayao miyazaki said that true love was two people inspiring each other to live…recognizing just how hard living is, putting one foot in front of the other every day, how easy it is to lose our passion for it…… that’s the real shit

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hjarta:

the visible leg hair at the bottom of my pants is apart of the look btw if you even care

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ericbogosbian:

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voyager is fucking balls to the wall every week. it’s just like. tom drove too fast and turned into a lizard and then turned the captain into one too, and he and the captain had lizard sex which resulted in lizard babies. the next week tuvok mind melded too hard with a serial killer and almost broke his brain but in the end wound up bonded to the killer, who in turn left murder behind to grow flowers in his quarters because the telepathic sex mind meld was that good. and then the NEXT week b'elanna had to save everybody from a fucked up sentient death machine that she programmed when she used to be a terrorist.

next week we will debate the ethics of assisted suicide. this is a very sensitive topic which we have handled by having said debate against a morally bankrupt outer space court jester.

it’s like the twilight zone if it was vaguely serialised and rod serling did a shit ton of cocaine before writing each episode. like “wasn’t that fucked up? anyway, see you next week.”

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froody:

I see a lot of ‘cis’ women say they wish they were androgynous in the way men were or they wish they were pretty in the way men were. This is your sign to go try to do that. You may find you enjoy being an androgynous woman. You may find you no longer identify as a woman. You may find you don’t like androgyny. You will not know until you try. Cut your hair if you’ve always wanted to but have been afraid to. Shop in the men’s section if you’ve been too nervous to. Wear clothing with an androgynous  silhouette. Experiment with binding, take baby steps with compression bras if you want. Wear unisex scents. Live life. Try things you want to try. A lot of cis women do not understand the joys of mens pants and mens deodorant. I think everyone should try both of those things.

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somegoodlittlethings:

being in your early twenties is like [grocery shopping alone] [having instant noodles for dinner] [remembering random details about that one friend you haven’t spoken to in five years] [feeling overwhelming guilt for every purchase that isn’t strictly “necessary”] [having midday naps] [finding out through facebook that the girl who was mean to you in high school has a husband and a baby] [falling a little in love with every stranger on public transport] [pretending you’re not afraid of being alone] [wondering when you’ll feel like a fully realized person] [listening to bands you liked in middle school] [blinking and it’s suddenly december] [failing to imagine yourself ten years from now] [feeling like you’re running out of time]

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sadizmas:

DO HIM NEXT

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peanutpalace-deactivated2023011:

So many idiots have masters degrees maybe I could be the next

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priestessamy:

As we exit Pride month, I wanna take a moment to say one last thing. Allies? Gather round. We need to have a quick chat.

The other day, my brother said some kinda dumb shit. From the moment I came out he’s been really supportive and cool. I think he probably could have fallen down one or two nasty rabbit holes of your typical straight cis person. But he never did.

But he’s still capable of saying some dumb shit. For example, heartily defending singular they/them pronouns, and then turning right around and going “but the like… xer/xem, I dunno.”

That would have been unfortunate but understandable. So I just gently say “yeah it can be confusing at first but you get the hang of it.”

The real problem was when he responded after that “I just, I dunno.”

I had a similar problem with my lesbian cousin’s wife, who said she didn’t understand nonbinary lesbians, and then just kinda glazed over my very generic response of “you don’t necessarily need to understand it, identity just comes in a lot of different flavors” and got that same noncommittal “I dunno.”

Or my previous manager who didn’t really get people with multiple pronouns, at which point my coworker was like “I’m literally he/they” and she shut down with a shrug and an “I dunno whatever.”

Like I’m trying to walk you through this but if you don’t wanna take that first step I can’t help you.

So please, allies. If you feel yourself being supportive and following that up with a “but” or an “I dunno”? Like… think through it. Examine it. Remember that for someone, that identity is sacred. And know that it’s okay to be ignorant of something, up to the point someone tries to help you and you suddenly don’t feel like putting in the work.

Allyship is not an identity or a label. It’s a process, and you’re not done yet.

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